Love according to psychologists; It is a complicated process that requires time, labor and emotional investment. However, a high passion for starting romantic relationships can be confused by many couples over time with love.
Psychologist Alaina Tiana Tiana describes bombs of love, which we often hear in the world of modern flirting, with the following words: Love bomb camps begins with an extreme interest to impress and control you. From the beginning, you feel very valuable and special.The bombing of love often shows the following behaviors: Excessive compliments and exaggerated love shows unnecessary and unwanted gifts in the early stages of future relationships that have plans to constantly send messages, control desires to quickly officially officially have internal relationships, instability, confusing, sensation of imbalance. These behaviors can be expressed in a conscious manner or not recognizing it. It is often related to psychological conditions such as insecurity, fear of abandonment, past injury or self -narcissistic personality disorders.According to the news at Cleveland Clinic, the process of bombing love often progresses in three stages: idealization: Your partner makes you constantly express your love, determine you as a wife of Muslims' souls. You can feel like everything is too good and quickly develop.The line between true love and bombing love may not be sure over time. Dr. Tiani said that the most important way to understand this difference is to look at the reactions given to your border: if you say you are uncomfortable, your partner will consider this and change their behavior accordingly, this is a healthy relationship. However, if your border is not respected, this is a serious danger.Can recover after such a relationship? Dr. Tiani said that this process takes time but can overcome with support. It can also be helpful to get help from a therapist to handle emotions such as depression, anxiety, anger and mourning that may occur after bombing love.
